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Unmasking ‘Anonymous’

Online nastiness has been there since its inception, but once upon a time, one could make the argument that there was a line between cyberspace and the “real” world. “Don’t like it? Don’t read it” was the short-sighted thinking.

But the lines aren’t just blurred today; they’re nonexistent. The internet has become an indispensable part of the modern world, and real lives are affected all the time now. The Houston Chronicle’s running a story today, for instance, about a woman who’s photo went online in February.

“It’s been completely humiliating,” she said. An anonymous person posted a photo of the woman with a mean-spirited message saying she has herpes, is fat, is sexually promiscuous and uses cocaine.

Near as I can tell, the site where this photo appeared exists for the sole purpose of maligning other people. How pathetic.

(An aside: You’ve probably have heard of this slimy website already. This is the same site that’s doing its level best to attack Carrie Prejean (Miss California) by releasing “semi-nude” photos of her, complete with pointed commentary.)

But there’s more driving this post than a local woman’s online humiliation at the hands of “anonymous” via some pathetic smear-mongerer. The anonymity inherently possible in the cyberworld has given rise to a teeming cesspool of hate and maliciousness that boggles the mind, and for me, the most horrific example is the story of Nikki Catsouras:

Not long after their 18-year-old daughter died in a car accident, Christos and Lesli Catsouras were forced to relive their grief.

They soon began receiving anonymous e-mails and text messages that contained photographs of the accident, including pictures of Nicole Catsouras’ decapitated body, still strapped to the crumpled remains of her father’s Porsche. A fake MySpace page was created, which at first looked like a tribute to Catsouras but also led to the horrific photos. [Snip]

The images became so persistent that Lesli Catsouras stopped checking her e-mail. Nikki’s three younger sisters were forbidden to use the Internet, and 16-year-old Danielle was taken out of school to be home schooled out of fear that her peers might confront her with the pictures.

“There was threats that people were gonna put the pictures on my locker, in my locker,” said Danielle. “I remember her in such a great way, I don’t wanna see it and have that image stuck in my head.”

I can’t even imagine the level of moral depravity required to inflict such injury on a suffering family.

Worse, the victims of these sick, soulless zombies are unable to stop the madness. It’s just too easy to toss stuff out there. Furthermore, some repulsive people are hiding behind the First Amendment.

“We’ve asked them to please take down the pictures, and they’ve said, ‘No, I don’t have to because I’ve got my First Amendment rights,” says Lesli Catsouras of the Web sites that still carry the photos. “But we have rights, you know, we’re living in the United States of America.”

The family finally gave up on the losing web battle and, in an effort to create a deterrent against future horrors, sued the California Highway Patrol, since that’s the source of the leaked photos. And again they lost (though they’re appealing).

In March 2008, [the case] was dismissed by a superior-court judge, who ruled that while the dispatchers’ conduct was “utterly reprehensible,” it hadn’t violated the law. “No duty exists between the surviving family and defendant,” the opinion reads, because privacy rights don’t extend to the dead. “It’s an unfortunate situation, and our heart goes out to the family,” says R. Rex Parris, the attorney representing O’Donnell. “But this is America, and there’s a freedom of information.”

This is not just sickening. It’s a real problem.

The online fight to protect free speech, however important, is both misguided and self-destructive, because the traditional societal tools — censure, civil or criminal charges — are completely useless against an anonymous tormentor.

Reputations, sanity, and common decency have been cast aside as secondary to the internet’s rampant growth. Business, industry, and society have all been transformed by this technology, and it’s fully integrated in almost every aspect of the modern world.

But it’s a free-wheeling madhouse spinning out of control. We’ve unleashed a monster, and unless we get some laws into place to protect people, the pathetic cowards who hide behind their “anonymous” shields are going to destroy the tool on which we’ve all come to rely.

And while I both hate and fear the level of regulation this will require, I hate and fear the power “anonymous” has over people’s lives more. We’re going to have to unmask the filthy cowards, and expose them to the legal and social consequences of their words and actions.

Postscript: I understand the arguments for anonymity online. I even agree that without it, there are situations in which people would not feel able to express opinions at all. But I do not see a way to protect that anonymity without exposing others to permanent, malicious emotional, social and/or economic damage from which they cannot defend themselves. If you have another solution, I’d love to hear it.

  • archangel
    Good points Polimom. At Columbine massacre, the judge sealed the photos of the dead, and the journals and videos made by the shooters. It's been ten years, and just now, some of the journals have been allowed to be read by researchers.

    THere are gore sites on the internet that collect the kinds of pictures you name, and sell them as CD sets to? THere are a proliferation of sites that just carry the gore photos that have put the selling of them at less of a premium i imagine

    there are more kinds of porn than just sexual, that's certain and has been certain likely since the first head was put on a pike in the public square.

    One of the things we know as shrinks, is a hyperfascination with gore may come from being deeply traumatized long ago. There are eidetic imprints made, esp on the young. One example is some who brought home entire catalogs of war-gore after wwII. You see it floating around for sale sometimes on ebay under cover of 'graphic war' pix.

    I tend to wonder how to help a person insistent on gore-porn learn to be humane toward the suffering of others who are alive. There are mental conditions that preclude such, in some, however. Some with a gore-fetish may be unbalanced in other ways as well. Lack of considering consequences, lack of reason and constraint tend to pool together in obsessional thought.

    A site person who has become a portal for others seeking gore, likely a kind of decayed prestige they dont want to give up. There may be nothing happening that is 'alive', in the site person's life elsewhere

    When there's a sexual crime of maiming or mutilation of the living or the dead, investigators often look first at suspects who have obsessions with necrophilia. Necrophilia doesnt mean having sex with corpses, (although it could). It is a broad category that means a twisted 'love' of the dead. And under that banner come many predilictions, including amassing gore-porn.

    In the Jon Bonet Ramsey case, and also in other cases across the country, often a person delivering the body, or a person in the morgue, or a subordinate person somewhere in the chain of the coroner's office will take pix of the dead or cop the autopsy pictures, copy them and keep them/ or distribute them.

    The obsession is a lot like pedophilia in that regard. People who suffer from pedophilia dont hang out in banks. They hang out where children are. Same with people suffering from necrophilia. They hang out where the bodies are, or where others have access to the bodies, including effluvia, full access, and pix.

    The coroner's office, the ambulances, the drivers, the deliverers of evidences, the ER, the first responders, the body prep rooms of funeral homes, etc., are staffed by persons who are utterly respectful of the bodies of the dead. And the families of the dying and dead. I think, they all deserve medals for doing the often heartbreaking work they do day after day. You have to grow a certain amount of armor to do the work, but also remain heartful. And most do both.
    But people who suffer from necrophilia or what are called the pretty 'out there' dysmorphias or parasexualities/ paraphilias, they still find their ways to those places too.

    The person so disposed to gore, wants privacy and secrecy more than anything, because they are often fragile emotionally (I know that sounds odd, considering, but much of this kind of matrix in a human is paradoxical; "I do painful things to others, because it was done to me, I attack others at the heart level, because it was done to me," etc) and they know that they would be soundly condemned and marginalized in no uncertain terms by most around them, including being put out of work, out of the neighborhood, being publicly and deeply scorned. It is an odd thing, that by alienating heartfelt and grieving others, the thing they fear most is being exiled --and without resources--themselves.
  • archangel
    well, that was way long. sorry. Just trying to put out the under-girdings. Frankly, it makes my stomach hurt to see such matters unfold as you wrote about here. Thanks for your taking it on polimom. Some commenters have asked why I keep writing about the 'hopeless situation in Burma or about 'honor killings'.... it's to keep matters above ground instead of letting them sink below the waves. I see that in you too. It's one of the few ways I know that ordinary people can bring things to a head: keep taking note, saying what one can, when one can.

    Continuuan.
  • Silhouette
    Oh boy, I smell another "if you're against gay marriage you're a hater" in disguise. Hope I'm wrong...
  • Sil, you're obsessed. And totally off subject.
  • CStanley
    Horrifying story. Thank you for the psychological insights on something which is nearly impossible to understand, Dr. E.
  • So. Does this mean everybody agrees that we have to kill the ability to be anonymous on the net? Or did I not pose that solution directly enough?
  • archangel
    just one idea out of several swimming around in my heart, is that likely laws will need to be considered, but very narrowly, like the 'funeral dignity' ideas that were put forth in many legislatures after fred phelps and his roving family kept trying to demean mourners at funerals with his demonstrations for publicity.

    I have not read the verdict in the case you noted, but I know that judges cannot create law in their jurisdictions, even though, as you quoted, this judge was outraged by the circumstances. If there is no law against the release of accident photos (not the same as crime scene photos) the judge would have his hands tied.

    When I was in law school, the one thing I learned that has stayed and stayed with me, is that what we wish the law to be, and what the law is, are often quite different. Ethics is higher than the law, but ethics violations cannot be prosecuted unless there is also a violation of law.

    As I mentioned re Columbine, the Public Information Act still can be sidelined for long periods of time by sealing records, (we see this amongst the Feds often too) as was done in Colo to protect the grieving families and precisely also, to keep others' mitts out of the matter for a time... for a huge grab to sensationalize came from many quarters....often with money-making motives cloaked in 'telling the real story,' or desire for some kind of prestige or prize going along with it.

    Again, if there were a law of some sort, it would seem it would have to be narrowly defined, very narrowly indeed, as there are anonymous correspondants most of us journos have from foreign countries (like Burma) who are risking their lives to get information and photos out.

    It's interesting to me more so, that the Chinese and Burmese and other governments are able to ferret out the IP's and locations of their anonymous bloggers and imprison or 'disappear' them in wink. It would appear there is already technology to find out who this fellow is who posts gore-pictures to his website. Interesting to know why/ how that tech. is or isnt being used.
  • jwest
    PM,

    The way I took your article, it struck me more as a condemnation of bloggers who seem to enjoy destroying people’s lives and being mean just for the fun of it, as opposed to the obvious disgust with death porn.

    Although this particular incident is totally egregious, I don’t believe the answer is narrowly defined laws. The best cure for a person who purposefully seeks to harm innocents for sport by anonymous posting on the internet is to reveal their identity.

    From there, public shaming would tend to dissuade others from the same antics.
  • I'm not sure why you thought I was condemning bloggers. I didn't mention it anywhere at all.

    The best cure for a person who purposefully seeks to harm innocents for sport by anonymous posting on the internet is to reveal their identity.

    Yes! That's exactly what I was saying. So how do you think that could be accomplished?
  • jwest
    “' I'm not sure why you thought I was condemning bloggers. I didn't mention it anywhere at all.”

    I was gleaning that from this passage:

    “Near as I can tell, the site where this photo appeared exists for the sole purpose of maligning other people. How pathetic.

    (An aside: You’ve probably have heard of this slimy website already. This is the same site that’s doing its level best to attack Carrie Prejean (Miss California) by releasing “semi-nude” photos of her, complete with pointed commentary.)”

    Lots of hate floating around out there.
  • HemmD
    PM

    The problem with giving up anonymous is one conversely becomes a target themselves. Anyone who has posted their email address on an open web site knows, junk mail can be the least of yout worries. Being anonymous can be used as a shield as well as a weapon.

    As far as tracking by IP, that too can be difficult. It requires access to information held by one or more ISPs, and if no law is broken, getting providers to release that info can be real problem. Add to this the fact that messages passing through sites designed to make headers in the email misdirect your search, you begin to see the technological problems. Hackers on the internet form the most industrious group dedicated to 'disappearing' identity. As I mentioned, junk mail is the least intrusive symptom of this phenomena, and even with laws created to stop this, you just need to check your inbox to know who's winning that war.

    The only thing that may someday work would be the evolution of the new IPv6 addressing model proposed and beginning to be implemented. The new addressing scheme has more than enough addresses to provide everyone with their own unique address. The problem there is two-fold. Money - it will cost a ton to upgrade all the devices on the internet to use IPv6. The other is more political, if each person has their own number, the 'mark of the beast' crowd would go absolutely nuts. The last problem is even more concern, if you have one address, a government who can block that address also has the ability to 'disappear' you from the web.

    Sorry, my inner geek must be heard from time to time.
  • archangel
    that was interesting HemmD, glad you wrote it all out for us

    dr.e
  • Thanks, HemmD. Your inner geek is very helpful on this one. I have a tech-geek chiming in over at the Chron as well (I crossed from here), and between the two of you, I'm starting to climb down off the ceiling.

    :>
  • pacatrue
    I understand polimom's concerns but unfortunately have no solution. Anonymity indeed has its virtues as well. I'd hate to have anyone be able to google the fact that I've looked up research on medical problems. Anonymity can also allow you to try out things that are worth trying out, perhaps a controversial political view, precisely without that social approbation. Of course, all this also allows people to research and try out things that can hurt others. No idea how to keep one without the other.
  • You might take some time and peruse The MMF Hall of Humiliation. This is certainly one way of doing it (though the Fools make the job a whole lot easier by posting their identifying information in the scams themselves.)

    The only problem with it is that you have to have a thick skin - and a pretty good lawyer (which the person who originated this site certainly does.) People tend to get upset when you attempt the "public humiliation" route, as you can probably guess.

    ~EdT.
  • Silhouette: Oh boy, I smell another "if you're against gay marriage you're a hater" in disguise. Hope I'm wrong...

    Don't worry. You were.

    ~EdT.
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