Bill Cosby were running for President and told black folks that they need to “cowboy up” and take responsibility over their lives instead of blaming white folks. Well, that happened yesterday at the NAACP National Convention from presumptive Democratic nominee, Barack Obama. This is an excerpt from the speech last night:
“Teaching our daughters to never allow images on television to tell them what they are worth; teaching our sons to treat women with respect, and to realize responsibility does not end at conception; that what makes them a man is not the ability to have a child but to raise one. That’s a message we need to send.”
I have two initial personal feelings about the above statement. It is absolutely disappointing that we need any politician to tell us what should be common sense regarding personal responsibility in that one, women should be treated with respect, and two, fatherhood is a lifelong commitment and not a biological act. The statement also reveals something about Obama. He is willing to cross the boundaries of “political correctness” and perceived social alignment to tell the NAACP what they have rarely heard for almost one hundred years; that their failure as a social empowerment organization is not to be blamed primarily on white America, rather, by the lack of leadership themselves.
Don’t get it twisted. I know that there is still racism and sexism in this country as is evidenced by the backlash of the cover art of The New Yorker and its’ satirical commentary on race, ethnicity and gender. The question is how do we move forward as a united people? Is it up to Obama and McCain to lead us beyond our fears, failures and prejudices; or, is it up to each of us to find the strength within ourselves and take action?
Politically, the question is more intriguing: How would the media cover a story that might involve John McCain going to the Christian Coalition convention to tell their parents to turn off the television, put away the video games and be better parents? Only time will tell…