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		<title>By: Polimom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Polimom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 14:46:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt;&quot;...he probably just wants to sing and make great music (which his album most certainly is NOT)&quot;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I haven&#039;t heard all the tracks yet, but I think I&#039;m probably going to end up agreeing with you here roro.  So far, what I&#039;ve heard is WAYyyyy too techno for me.  (Though I like &quot;Whataya Want From Me&quot; a great deal.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>&#8220;&#8230;he probably just wants to sing and make great music (which his album most certainly is NOT)&#8221;</em></p>
<p>I haven&#39;t heard all the tracks yet, but I think I&#39;m probably going to end up agreeing with you here roro.  So far, what I&#39;ve heard is WAYyyyy too techno for me.  (Though I like &#8220;Whataya Want From Me&#8221; a great deal.)</p>
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		<title>By: Dr J</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 04:15:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t get it, Joe.  I don&#039;t think it&#039;s Out magazine&#039;s place to define what &quot;out&quot; means for everyone.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And although I don&#039;t know much about publicists, it seems to me the eternal challenge is crafting an image for the star that&#039;s both close enough to accepted pigeonholes to be relate-able yet fresh and unique.  That probably requires publicists to sacrifice their dignity to perform back-bends like asking the gay magazine to be less...you know...gay.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#39;t get it, Joe.  I don&#39;t think it&#39;s Out magazine&#39;s place to define what &#8220;out&#8221; means for everyone.</p>
<p>And although I don&#39;t know much about publicists, it seems to me the eternal challenge is crafting an image for the star that&#39;s both close enough to accepted pigeonholes to be relate-able yet fresh and unique.  That probably requires publicists to sacrifice their dignity to perform back-bends like asking the gay magazine to be less&#8230;you know&#8230;gay.</p>
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		<title>By: JWindish</title>
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		<dc:creator>JWindish</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 04:01:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Poli, If you read my post and my comment, and I get that you did, nowhere do I or did I see anyone else ask that Lambert &quot;take up the banner or be a poster child.&quot; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You and I clearly disagree and are not likely to find common ground on this one. But to reiterate, what I said was that it&#039;s ham-handed for a handler to say what his did. And he, Lambert, should expect to be called on it. You can&#039;t have it both ways: out, proud (his words), bad-boy (my take, along with the fan press, including Details) but still ask not to be portrayed as &quot;gay-gay&quot; (whatever the hell that is) when you&#039;re on the cover of a gay magazine. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I agree with roro and stockboy that the young Lambert is building a career. The Rolling Stone article said that he had only then (June) gotten his publicist, a day-to-day manager, and a bodyguard. As he rises to the heights of stardom, I have no doubt that he will be sure to hire a better publicist than the one that caused this ruckus.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Poli, If you read my post and my comment, and I get that you did, nowhere do I or did I see anyone else ask that Lambert &#8220;take up the banner or be a poster child.&#8221; </p>
<p>You and I clearly disagree and are not likely to find common ground on this one. But to reiterate, what I said was that it&#39;s ham-handed for a handler to say what his did. And he, Lambert, should expect to be called on it. You can&#39;t have it both ways: out, proud (his words), bad-boy (my take, along with the fan press, including Details) but still ask not to be portrayed as &#8220;gay-gay&#8221; (whatever the hell that is) when you&#39;re on the cover of a gay magazine. </p>
<p>I agree with roro and stockboy that the young Lambert is building a career. The Rolling Stone article said that he had only then (June) gotten his publicist, a day-to-day manager, and a bodyguard. As he rises to the heights of stardom, I have no doubt that he will be sure to hire a better publicist than the one that caused this ruckus.</p>
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		<title>By: StockBoySF</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 19:20:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;There&#039;s a part of me that&#039;s a businessperson and part of me that&#039;s an artist, and the artist wants to push buttons and break boundaries, but the businessperson goes, &#039;Well, that doesn&#039;t really sell albums.&#039;&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;So... he&#039;s willing to sell his values and who he wants to be for a few bucks?  :)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Honestly I think he&#039;s young and trying to find his way.  He&#039;s attempting to balance competing interests for which there is no guidebook.  Lambert needs life&#039;s experience and hopefully he&#039;ll learn from this.  It&#039;s amazing that so many people expect every public figure, no matter how young and inexperienced, to have all the answers, know the right thing to do and act like wise men (or women).  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I think Lambert&#039;s heart is in the right place, wanting to be &quot;out&quot; but there&#039;s nothing wrong with wanting to be successful and make a few bucks.  He just needs to find the right balance, as we all try to do in our lives.  I would have thought that part of this balancing act would be to let Lambert be Lambert, meaning loud and out, in a &quot;safe&quot; venue such as a gay magazine.  It&#039;s not like a straight jock is going to be reading Out and if he did then he shouldn&#039;t be surprised to see gay people in it, some of whom may be doing publicity stunts.  I mean if a straight woman can be pregnant and half naked on the cover of national magazines why can&#039;t a gay guy do something silly or outrageous or whatever, on the cover of a gay magazine?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m happy to give kudos for Lambert trying to find the right balance, but I think the decision around the magazine cover was a missed opportunity for Lambert to appeal to one very important group of his fans.  Not a huge deal, this is how he&#039;ll learn and now let&#039;s move to the next topic!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;There&#39;s a part of me that&#39;s a businessperson and part of me that&#39;s an artist, and the artist wants to push buttons and break boundaries, but the businessperson goes, &#39;Well, that doesn&#39;t really sell albums.&#39;&#8221;</p>
<p>So&#8230; he&#39;s willing to sell his values and who he wants to be for a few bucks?  <img src='http://themoderatevoice.com/wordpress-engine/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Honestly I think he&#39;s young and trying to find his way.  He&#39;s attempting to balance competing interests for which there is no guidebook.  Lambert needs life&#39;s experience and hopefully he&#39;ll learn from this.  It&#39;s amazing that so many people expect every public figure, no matter how young and inexperienced, to have all the answers, know the right thing to do and act like wise men (or women).  </p>
<p>I think Lambert&#39;s heart is in the right place, wanting to be &#8220;out&#8221; but there&#39;s nothing wrong with wanting to be successful and make a few bucks.  He just needs to find the right balance, as we all try to do in our lives.  I would have thought that part of this balancing act would be to let Lambert be Lambert, meaning loud and out, in a &#8220;safe&#8221; venue such as a gay magazine.  It&#39;s not like a straight jock is going to be reading Out and if he did then he shouldn&#39;t be surprised to see gay people in it, some of whom may be doing publicity stunts.  I mean if a straight woman can be pregnant and half naked on the cover of national magazines why can&#39;t a gay guy do something silly or outrageous or whatever, on the cover of a gay magazine?</p>
<p>I&#39;m happy to give kudos for Lambert trying to find the right balance, but I think the decision around the magazine cover was a missed opportunity for Lambert to appeal to one very important group of his fans.  Not a huge deal, this is how he&#39;ll learn and now let&#39;s move to the next topic!</p>
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		<title>By: Polimom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Polimom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 18:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joe, I read the Rolling Stone piece.  Telling me to &quot;read up&quot; is a bit of a miss with that arrow.   I&#039;m a huge Adam Lambert fan.  I gather, then, that you&#039;ve seen the &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.details.com/celebrities-entertainment/cover-stars/200910/american-idol-cover-star-adam-lambert?currentPage=1&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Details&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; images and interview?  This bit kinda gets at what I&#039;m saying:&lt;br&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&quot;Maybe it&#039;s the thing of being, like, confident in who you are, which cuts across the lines of gender and sexual orientation,&quot; he says.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Or maybe the jocks just like the way he sings—and Lambert intends to keep it that way. &quot;I just want to entertain,&quot; he says. &quot;I don&#039;t want [my music] to be a political or social thing right away. Eventually I would love to mess with that, but it&#039;s a tricky, tricky road. There&#039;s a part of me that&#039;s a businessperson and part of me that&#039;s an artist, and the artist wants to push buttons and break boundaries, but the businessperson goes, &#039;Well, that doesn&#039;t really sell albums.&#039; I don&#039;t want to alienate a bunch of people who would otherwise be into what I do.&quot;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br&gt;He may decide one day to take up the banner and fly it as a poster child -- but until he does, Joe, he belongs to both sexes.  And he seems to be okay with this, even if some folks are not.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joe, I read the Rolling Stone piece.  Telling me to &#8220;read up&#8221; is a bit of a miss with that arrow.   I&#39;m a huge Adam Lambert fan.  I gather, then, that you&#39;ve seen the <em><a href="http://www.details.com/celebrities-entertainment/cover-stars/200910/american-idol-cover-star-adam-lambert?currentPage=1" rel="nofollow">Details</a></em> images and interview?  This bit kinda gets at what I&#39;m saying:<br />
<blockquote>&#8220;Maybe it&#39;s the thing of being, like, confident in who you are, which cuts across the lines of gender and sexual orientation,&#8221; he says.</p>
<p>Or maybe the jocks just like the way he sings—and Lambert intends to keep it that way. &#8220;I just want to entertain,&#8221; he says. &#8220;I don&#39;t want [my music] to be a political or social thing right away. Eventually I would love to mess with that, but it&#39;s a tricky, tricky road. There&#39;s a part of me that&#39;s a businessperson and part of me that&#39;s an artist, and the artist wants to push buttons and break boundaries, but the businessperson goes, &#39;Well, that doesn&#39;t really sell albums.&#39; I don&#39;t want to alienate a bunch of people who would otherwise be into what I do.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>He may decide one day to take up the banner and fly it as a poster child &#8212; but until he does, Joe, he belongs to both sexes.  And he seems to be okay with this, even if some folks are not.</p>
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		<title>By: roro80</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 17:33:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Totally interesting post.  I have a very soft spot for this guy as he was a good friend of my best friend (they went to prom together!).  He was just a pudgey little high school musical geek with a voice of gold back then! &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Anyway, I&#039;d agree with both Joe&#039;s and Polimom&#039;s take on this.  My feeling is that Adam himself is probably torn or somewhat kept in the dark by his &quot;handlers&quot; at this point.  It seems like he wants to be out and proud and the, as Joe puts it, &quot;out gay bad-boy&quot;, and he probably just wants to sing and make great music (which his album most certainly is NOT). And of course, I&#039;m sure he wants to be seen as more than his sexuality. But the handlers and managers are too worried about the image and the homophobia and &quot;mainstream America&quot;.  I wish he would just join a band, do his own thing, start making some decent music, and let his persona and image develop as it will.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Totally interesting post.  I have a very soft spot for this guy as he was a good friend of my best friend (they went to prom together!).  He was just a pudgey little high school musical geek with a voice of gold back then! </p>
<p>Anyway, I&#39;d agree with both Joe&#39;s and Polimom&#39;s take on this.  My feeling is that Adam himself is probably torn or somewhat kept in the dark by his &#8220;handlers&#8221; at this point.  It seems like he wants to be out and proud and the, as Joe puts it, &#8220;out gay bad-boy&#8221;, and he probably just wants to sing and make great music (which his album most certainly is NOT). And of course, I&#39;m sure he wants to be seen as more than his sexuality. But the handlers and managers are too worried about the image and the homophobia and &#8220;mainstream America&#8221;.  I wish he would just join a band, do his own thing, start making some decent music, and let his persona and image develop as it will.</p>
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		<title>By: JWindish</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 14:19:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know, Polimom, contrarian that I am, I wanted to the write the post from your &#039;[they] expect him to be gay first and a singer second&#039; perspective, but then I spent way too much time on this frothy story reading completely everything linked in the story and more. At the end of all that I found your perspective to be wrong. I urge you to read up. I suggest you start with that entire 5,000 word Rolling Stone piece. He can&#039;t go around saying he &quot;will own&quot; &quot;sucking my boy’s face&quot; and describing how he lost his virginity on his 21st birthday, “I was drunk, and it was awkward” not to mention the, &quot;I’m proud of my sexuality. I embrace it. It’s just another part of me.” You can&#039;t paint yourself (literally) as an out gay bad-boy performer and then have your publicist warn the gay interviewer not to make him look “too gay,” or, “you know, gay-gay.” Or, well, of course you &lt;i&gt;can&lt;/&gt;. But then expect to be called on it. The gay press doesn&#039;t have the clout to make the criticism hurt. But to me, after reading up, it&#039;s legit.&lt;/i&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know, Polimom, contrarian that I am, I wanted to the write the post from your &#39;[they] expect him to be gay first and a singer second&#39; perspective, but then I spent way too much time on this frothy story reading completely everything linked in the story and more. At the end of all that I found your perspective to be wrong. I urge you to read up. I suggest you start with that entire 5,000 word Rolling Stone piece. He can&#39;t go around saying he &#8220;will own&#8221; &#8220;sucking my boy’s face&#8221; and describing how he lost his virginity on his 21st birthday, “I was drunk, and it was awkward” not to mention the, &#8220;I’m proud of my sexuality. I embrace it. It’s just another part of me.” You can&#39;t paint yourself (literally) as an out gay bad-boy performer and then have your publicist warn the gay interviewer not to make him look “too gay,” or, “you know, gay-gay.” Or, well, of course you <i>can&lt;/&gt;. But then expect to be called on it. The gay press doesn&#39;t have the clout to make the criticism hurt. But to me, after reading up, it&#39;s legit.</i></p>
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		<dc:creator>Gegenschattenbild</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 13:57:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sexual &quot;preference?&quot; Do you &quot;prefer&quot; to be attracted to men? Or does it just happen on its own?</description>
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		<description>[...] “I don&#8217;t think it should be a surprise for anyone to hear I&#8217;m gay… I&#8217;ve been living in Los Angeles for eight years as a gay man. I&#8217;ve been at clubs drunk making out with somebody in the corner. I&#8217;m proud of my sexuality. I embrace it. &#8230;Read Original Story: Adam Lambert: Out, But Not THAT Out &#8211; The Moderate Voice [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Polimom</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 11:34:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>An awful lot of people seem to expect him to be gay first and a singer second, but from the get-go, I got the distinct impression that Adam Lambert doesn&#039;t want to be anybody&#039;s Poster Child.  That impression was reinforced by his tweeted response.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I hope he&#039;s able to extract himself from the campy gay culture&#039;s apparent desire to lock him down.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An awful lot of people seem to expect him to be gay first and a singer second, but from the get-go, I got the distinct impression that Adam Lambert doesn&#39;t want to be anybody&#39;s Poster Child.  That impression was reinforced by his tweeted response.</p>
<p>I hope he&#39;s able to extract himself from the campy gay culture&#39;s apparent desire to lock him down.</p>
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		<title>By: Iana Leahman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Iana Leahman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 10:31:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What Aaron misses, what he sees is only someone&#039;s sexual preference, he dosen&#039;t see the whole person. Adam Lambert is a well adjusted whole person, not just his sexual preference. What makes a man sexy to a woman, Adam has in abundance; Adam is self-motivated, enthusiastic, poised, confident,articulate, intellient,innovative, creative, pleasant, personable, outgoing,friendly,interesting, courageous, honest, honors his own emotions, respects himself and others,takes responsibilty for his life, and oh yea! he is a smokin hot sexy guy no matter what his personal preference. There are straight handsome men who will never be as sexy as Adam since they are not his whole personality that is soooo attractive to us.Adam is a fascinating individualistic gutsy guy, with tremendous enlightened perspectives. We need ,Joe Windish, to start seeing the WHOLE PERSON:-not just is he straight, bisexual or gay -the separative positiion taken by many, esp in media articles and although Adam is intergrated into society,and has changed minds and hearts without preaching, just by simply being himself. He need do no more,ever, he has done more to help the gay cause than Aaron and Out. Integration is better than separation.There is only one race, by the way, the human race and we are either loving or hating, kind or cruel, smart or stupid, happy or sad, hetero, bi,or gay,tall or short, you get the picture. And the studies shown by Margaret Mead on human sexuality in it&#039;s most basic categories are:&lt;br&gt;1.Heterosexual&lt;br&gt;2.Heterosexual with incidental attraction to same sex&lt;br&gt;3.Bisexual&lt;br&gt;4.Homosexual with incidental attraction to opposite sex&lt;br&gt;5.Homosexual&lt;br&gt;And all this basic , add to that- a hugh percentage of males are bisexual till approximately age 36 and &lt;br&gt;and sexuality for many is very fluid and a person&#039;s major preferences may change after years.So lets&#039;s stop. look at whole person and live and let live. And we all have a right to live our own lives and make our own choices without Aaron or anyone else trying to control us.&lt;br&gt;2.Heteros</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What Aaron misses, what he sees is only someone&#39;s sexual preference, he dosen&#39;t see the whole person. Adam Lambert is a well adjusted whole person, not just his sexual preference. What makes a man sexy to a woman, Adam has in abundance; Adam is self-motivated, enthusiastic, poised, confident,articulate, intellient,innovative, creative, pleasant, personable, outgoing,friendly,interesting, courageous, honest, honors his own emotions, respects himself and others,takes responsibilty for his life, and oh yea! he is a smokin hot sexy guy no matter what his personal preference. There are straight handsome men who will never be as sexy as Adam since they are not his whole personality that is soooo attractive to us.Adam is a fascinating individualistic gutsy guy, with tremendous enlightened perspectives. We need ,Joe Windish, to start seeing the WHOLE PERSON:-not just is he straight, bisexual or gay -the separative positiion taken by many, esp in media articles and although Adam is intergrated into society,and has changed minds and hearts without preaching, just by simply being himself. He need do no more,ever, he has done more to help the gay cause than Aaron and Out. Integration is better than separation.There is only one race, by the way, the human race and we are either loving or hating, kind or cruel, smart or stupid, happy or sad, hetero, bi,or gay,tall or short, you get the picture. And the studies shown by Margaret Mead on human sexuality in it&#39;s most basic categories are:<br />1.Heterosexual<br />2.Heterosexual with incidental attraction to same sex<br />3.Bisexual<br />4.Homosexual with incidental attraction to opposite sex<br />5.Homosexual<br />And all this basic , add to that- a hugh percentage of males are bisexual till approximately age 36 and <br />and sexuality for many is very fluid and a person&#39;s major preferences may change after years.So lets&#39;s stop. look at whole person and live and let live. And we all have a right to live our own lives and make our own choices without Aaron or anyone else trying to control us.<br />2.Heteros</p>
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