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	<title>Comments on: Metrosexuals versus manly men: a reason voters will prefer McCain to Obama?</title>
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		<title>By: mikkel</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/19861/metrosexuals-versus-manly-men-a-reason-voters-will-prefer-mccain-to-obama/comment-page-3/#comment-127297</link>
		<dc:creator>mikkel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 21:37:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haha I originally agreed that it was a euphemism! That Bush used one, and now Obama is using another one to distance himself from Bush. If Obama was completely honest he would just say &quot;I&#039;m going to set preconditions but I think it means something different than what other people mean. They have the wrong preconditions.&quot; I think that is why Biden et. al have tried to couch it even while agreeing with the underlying premise. Biden never really cares about the politically correct thing to say.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s just another context in politics where the players have to say what they do to play roles instead of reality. If we keep agreeing we&#039;ll get into a big fight.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I do disagree with this: &quot;I think all of the delinking- put aside Hezbollah, etc- is considered dangerous by everyone except the far left&quot; considering that&#039;s a fundamental characteristic of the Realist school of foreign policy which dominated the Cold War and was seen as conservative. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Although you can argue that our policies then hurt us in the present, but it is kind of ironic that the statement &quot;we should negotiate with Iran about our own interests while setting aside some things that are bad but don&#039;t affect us a while lot&quot; could be construed as Left. Liberals are supposed to be the Utopian ones that look for universal solutions! I think a lot of times people get caught up in arguing over strategic intentions by criticizing tactics.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha I originally agreed that it was a euphemism! That Bush used one, and now Obama is using another one to distance himself from Bush. If Obama was completely honest he would just say &#8220;I&#39;m going to set preconditions but I think it means something different than what other people mean. They have the wrong preconditions.&#8221; I think that is why Biden et. al have tried to couch it even while agreeing with the underlying premise. Biden never really cares about the politically correct thing to say.</p>
<p>It&#39;s just another context in politics where the players have to say what they do to play roles instead of reality. If we keep agreeing we&#39;ll get into a big fight.</p>
<p>I do disagree with this: &#8220;I think all of the delinking- put aside Hezbollah, etc- is considered dangerous by everyone except the far left&#8221; considering that&#39;s a fundamental characteristic of the Realist school of foreign policy which dominated the Cold War and was seen as conservative. </p>
<p>Although you can argue that our policies then hurt us in the present, but it is kind of ironic that the statement &#8220;we should negotiate with Iran about our own interests while setting aside some things that are bad but don&#39;t affect us a while lot&#8221; could be construed as Left. Liberals are supposed to be the Utopian ones that look for universal solutions! I think a lot of times people get caught up in arguing over strategic intentions by criticizing tactics.</p>
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		<title>By: mikkel</title>
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		<dc:creator>mikkel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 21:37:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haha I originally agreed that it was a euphemism! That Bush used one, and now Obama is using another one to distance himself from Bush. If Obama was completely honest he would just say &quot;I&#039;m going to set preconditions but I think it means something different than what other people mean. They have the wrong preconditions.&quot; I think that is why Biden et. al have tried to couch it even while agreeing with the underlying premise. Biden never really cares about the politically correct thing to say.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s just another context in politics where the players have to say what they do to play roles instead of reality. If we keep agreeing we&#039;ll get into a big fight.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I do disagree with this: &quot;I think all of the delinking- put aside Hezbollah, etc- is considered dangerous by everyone except the far left&quot; considering that&#039;s a fundamental characteristic of the Realist school of foreign policy which dominated the Cold War and was seen as conservative. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Although you can argue that our policies then hurt us in the present, but it is kind of ironic that the statement &quot;we should negotiate with Iran about our own interests while setting aside some things that are bad but don&#039;t affect us a while lot&quot; could be construed as Left. Liberals are supposed to be the Utopian ones that look for universal solutions! I think a lot of times people get caught up in arguing over strategic intentions by criticizing tactics.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha I originally agreed that it was a euphemism! That Bush used one, and now Obama is using another one to distance himself from Bush. If Obama was completely honest he would just say &#8220;I&#39;m going to set preconditions but I think it means something different than what other people mean. They have the wrong preconditions.&#8221; I think that is why Biden et. al have tried to couch it even while agreeing with the underlying premise. Biden never really cares about the politically correct thing to say.</p>
<p>It&#39;s just another context in politics where the players have to say what they do to play roles instead of reality. If we keep agreeing we&#39;ll get into a big fight.</p>
<p>I do disagree with this: &#8220;I think all of the delinking- put aside Hezbollah, etc- is considered dangerous by everyone except the far left&#8221; considering that&#39;s a fundamental characteristic of the Realist school of foreign policy which dominated the Cold War and was seen as conservative. </p>
<p>Although you can argue that our policies then hurt us in the present, but it is kind of ironic that the statement &#8220;we should negotiate with Iran about our own interests while setting aside some things that are bad but don&#39;t affect us a while lot&#8221; could be construed as Left. Liberals are supposed to be the Utopian ones that look for universal solutions! I think a lot of times people get caught up in arguing over strategic intentions by criticizing tactics.</p>
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		<title>By: mikkel</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/19861/metrosexuals-versus-manly-men-a-reason-voters-will-prefer-mccain-to-obama/comment-page-3/#comment-127304</link>
		<dc:creator>mikkel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 21:37:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haha I originally agreed that it was a euphemism! That Bush used one, and now Obama is using another one to distance himself from Bush. If Obama was completely honest he would just say &quot;I&#039;m going to set preconditions but I think it means something different than what other people mean. They have the wrong preconditions.&quot; I think that is why Biden et. al have tried to couch it even while agreeing with the underlying premise. Biden never really cares about the politically correct thing to say.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s just another context in politics where the players have to say what they do to play roles instead of reality. If we keep agreeing we&#039;ll get into a big fight.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I do disagree with this: &quot;I think all of the delinking- put aside Hezbollah, etc- is considered dangerous by everyone except the far left&quot; considering that&#039;s a fundamental characteristic of the Realist school of foreign policy which dominated the Cold War and was seen as conservative. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Although you can argue that our policies then hurt us in the present, but it is kind of ironic that the statement &quot;we should negotiate with Iran about our own interests while setting aside some things that are bad but don&#039;t affect us a while lot&quot; could be construed as Left. Liberals are supposed to be the Utopian ones that look for universal solutions! I think a lot of times people get caught up in arguing over strategic intentions by criticizing tactics.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha I originally agreed that it was a euphemism! That Bush used one, and now Obama is using another one to distance himself from Bush. If Obama was completely honest he would just say &#8220;I&#39;m going to set preconditions but I think it means something different than what other people mean. They have the wrong preconditions.&#8221; I think that is why Biden et. al have tried to couch it even while agreeing with the underlying premise. Biden never really cares about the politically correct thing to say.</p>
<p>It&#39;s just another context in politics where the players have to say what they do to play roles instead of reality. If we keep agreeing we&#39;ll get into a big fight.</p>
<p>I do disagree with this: &#8220;I think all of the delinking- put aside Hezbollah, etc- is considered dangerous by everyone except the far left&#8221; considering that&#39;s a fundamental characteristic of the Realist school of foreign policy which dominated the Cold War and was seen as conservative. </p>
<p>Although you can argue that our policies then hurt us in the present, but it is kind of ironic that the statement &#8220;we should negotiate with Iran about our own interests while setting aside some things that are bad but don&#39;t affect us a while lot&#8221; could be construed as Left. Liberals are supposed to be the Utopian ones that look for universal solutions! I think a lot of times people get caught up in arguing over strategic intentions by criticizing tactics.</p>
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		<title>By: GreenDreams</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/19861/metrosexuals-versus-manly-men-a-reason-voters-will-prefer-mccain-to-obama/comment-page-3/#comment-127295</link>
		<dc:creator>GreenDreams</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 21:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So, now that this discussion has veered almost permanently off-topic, let me once again reiterate a real-world perspective missing in this dialogue. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The police negotiate with criminals in very intense crisis situations in which there is a high possibility of injury or death on both sides. No one accuses them of &quot;appeasement&quot; or of &quot;legitimizing&quot; the criminals. There are no preconditions, as none are possible. There are no &quot;low level talks&quot; because there isn&#039;t time (and besides, what sense does it make to give your second string a shot at it first?) &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Negotiation has become a highly evolved strategy with a rich and diverse toolkit. It works an amazing amount of the time. The alternative, from a law enforcement standpoint, is to say &quot;we&#039;ve got you surrounded, you&#039;re outgunned, and we&#039;re going to kill you. So do your worst.&quot; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I know I won&#039;t convince some commentors here of anything, but it is my hope that readers with more open minds will start thinking about negotiation as a serious tool for resolving conflict, and not some sissy soft liberal &quot;appeasement&quot; strategy. Remember, real world tough guys with guns, actual law enforcement heroes do this every day: they negotiate with the most sociopathic and dangerous people imaginable. And they win. They&#039;re not &quot;naive&quot; or stupid or inexperienced or exercising bad judgment. I wouldn&#039;t be surprised to see some of them standing up for Obama and throwing this misrepresentation of the art of diplomacy right back in the GOP&#039;s faces. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The approach of threatening, of not engaging, and of attacking is a much riskier strategy, both in law enforcement and in international relations.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I hope the Obama campaign can get across to voting Americans that negotiation is not a gift to our enemies. Negotiation concedes nothing! Is a perfectly valid, legitimate and proven method of resolving conflict.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Now, as several here have taken a very inflexible position about negotiation, what is your solution? Bomb Iran? Is that really what you&#039;re suggesting? Unleashing missiles against a sovereign nation, possibly even nuclear weapons, threatening our own soldiers downwind in Afghanistan with radiation poisoning? Inciting the righteous wrath of the entire Islamic world, of all of our enemies and most of our friends? Or do you have some third option that you haven&#039;t stated. Please. Share it with us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, now that this discussion has veered almost permanently off-topic, let me once again reiterate a real-world perspective missing in this dialogue. </p>
<p>The police negotiate with criminals in very intense crisis situations in which there is a high possibility of injury or death on both sides. No one accuses them of &#8220;appeasement&#8221; or of &#8220;legitimizing&#8221; the criminals. There are no preconditions, as none are possible. There are no &#8220;low level talks&#8221; because there isn&#39;t time (and besides, what sense does it make to give your second string a shot at it first?) </p>
<p>Negotiation has become a highly evolved strategy with a rich and diverse toolkit. It works an amazing amount of the time. The alternative, from a law enforcement standpoint, is to say &#8220;we&#39;ve got you surrounded, you&#39;re outgunned, and we&#39;re going to kill you. So do your worst.&#8221; </p>
<p>I know I won&#39;t convince some commentors here of anything, but it is my hope that readers with more open minds will start thinking about negotiation as a serious tool for resolving conflict, and not some sissy soft liberal &#8220;appeasement&#8221; strategy. Remember, real world tough guys with guns, actual law enforcement heroes do this every day: they negotiate with the most sociopathic and dangerous people imaginable. And they win. They&#39;re not &#8220;naive&#8221; or stupid or inexperienced or exercising bad judgment. I wouldn&#39;t be surprised to see some of them standing up for Obama and throwing this misrepresentation of the art of diplomacy right back in the GOP&#39;s faces. </p>
<p>The approach of threatening, of not engaging, and of attacking is a much riskier strategy, both in law enforcement and in international relations.</p>
<p>I hope the Obama campaign can get across to voting Americans that negotiation is not a gift to our enemies. Negotiation concedes nothing! Is a perfectly valid, legitimate and proven method of resolving conflict.</p>
<p>Now, as several here have taken a very inflexible position about negotiation, what is your solution? Bomb Iran? Is that really what you&#39;re suggesting? Unleashing missiles against a sovereign nation, possibly even nuclear weapons, threatening our own soldiers downwind in Afghanistan with radiation poisoning? Inciting the righteous wrath of the entire Islamic world, of all of our enemies and most of our friends? Or do you have some third option that you haven&#39;t stated. Please. Share it with us.</p>
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		<title>By: GreenDreams</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/19861/metrosexuals-versus-manly-men-a-reason-voters-will-prefer-mccain-to-obama/comment-page-3/#comment-127298</link>
		<dc:creator>GreenDreams</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 21:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So, now that this discussion has veered almost permanently off-topic, let me once again reiterate a real-world perspective missing in this dialogue. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The police negotiate with criminals in very intense crisis situations in which there is a high possibility of injury or death on both sides. No one accuses them of &quot;appeasement&quot; or of &quot;legitimizing&quot; the criminals. There are no preconditions, as none are possible. There are no &quot;low level talks&quot; because there isn&#039;t time (and besides, what sense does it make to give your second string a shot at it first?) &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Negotiation has become a highly evolved strategy with a rich and diverse toolkit. It works an amazing amount of the time. The alternative, from a law enforcement standpoint, is to say &quot;we&#039;ve got you surrounded, you&#039;re outgunned, and we&#039;re going to kill you. So do your worst.&quot; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I know I won&#039;t convince some commentors here of anything, but it is my hope that readers with more open minds will start thinking about negotiation as a serious tool for resolving conflict, and not some sissy soft liberal &quot;appeasement&quot; strategy. Remember, real world tough guys with guns, actual law enforcement heroes do this every day: they negotiate with the most sociopathic and dangerous people imaginable. And they win. They&#039;re not &quot;naive&quot; or stupid or inexperienced or exercising bad judgment. I wouldn&#039;t be surprised to see some of them standing up for Obama and throwing this misrepresentation of the art of diplomacy right back in the GOP&#039;s faces. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The approach of threatening, of not engaging, and of attacking is a much riskier strategy, both in law enforcement and in international relations.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I hope the Obama campaign can get across to voting Americans that negotiation is not a gift to our enemies. Negotiation concedes nothing! Is a perfectly valid, legitimate and proven method of resolving conflict.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Now, as several here have taken a very inflexible position about negotiation, what is your solution? Bomb Iran? Is that really what you&#039;re suggesting? Unleashing missiles against a sovereign nation, possibly even nuclear weapons, threatening our own soldiers downwind in Afghanistan with radiation poisoning? Inciting the righteous wrath of the entire Islamic world, of all of our enemies and most of our friends? Or do you have some third option that you haven&#039;t stated. Please. Share it with us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, now that this discussion has veered almost permanently off-topic, let me once again reiterate a real-world perspective missing in this dialogue. </p>
<p>The police negotiate with criminals in very intense crisis situations in which there is a high possibility of injury or death on both sides. No one accuses them of &#8220;appeasement&#8221; or of &#8220;legitimizing&#8221; the criminals. There are no preconditions, as none are possible. There are no &#8220;low level talks&#8221; because there isn&#39;t time (and besides, what sense does it make to give your second string a shot at it first?) </p>
<p>Negotiation has become a highly evolved strategy with a rich and diverse toolkit. It works an amazing amount of the time. The alternative, from a law enforcement standpoint, is to say &#8220;we&#39;ve got you surrounded, you&#39;re outgunned, and we&#39;re going to kill you. So do your worst.&#8221; </p>
<p>I know I won&#39;t convince some commentors here of anything, but it is my hope that readers with more open minds will start thinking about negotiation as a serious tool for resolving conflict, and not some sissy soft liberal &#8220;appeasement&#8221; strategy. Remember, real world tough guys with guns, actual law enforcement heroes do this every day: they negotiate with the most sociopathic and dangerous people imaginable. And they win. They&#39;re not &#8220;naive&#8221; or stupid or inexperienced or exercising bad judgment. I wouldn&#39;t be surprised to see some of them standing up for Obama and throwing this misrepresentation of the art of diplomacy right back in the GOP&#39;s faces. </p>
<p>The approach of threatening, of not engaging, and of attacking is a much riskier strategy, both in law enforcement and in international relations.</p>
<p>I hope the Obama campaign can get across to voting Americans that negotiation is not a gift to our enemies. Negotiation concedes nothing! Is a perfectly valid, legitimate and proven method of resolving conflict.</p>
<p>Now, as several here have taken a very inflexible position about negotiation, what is your solution? Bomb Iran? Is that really what you&#39;re suggesting? Unleashing missiles against a sovereign nation, possibly even nuclear weapons, threatening our own soldiers downwind in Afghanistan with radiation poisoning? Inciting the righteous wrath of the entire Islamic world, of all of our enemies and most of our friends? Or do you have some third option that you haven&#39;t stated. Please. Share it with us.</p>
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		<title>By: GreenDreams</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/19861/metrosexuals-versus-manly-men-a-reason-voters-will-prefer-mccain-to-obama/comment-page-3/#comment-127303</link>
		<dc:creator>GreenDreams</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 21:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So, now that this discussion has veered almost permanently off-topic, let me once again reiterate a real-world perspective missing in this dialogue. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The police negotiate with criminals in very intense crisis situations in which there is a high possibility of injury or death on both sides. No one accuses them of &quot;appeasement&quot; or of &quot;legitimizing&quot; the criminals. There are no preconditions, as none are possible. There are no &quot;low level talks&quot; because there isn&#039;t time (and besides, what sense does it make to give your second string a shot at it first?) &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Negotiation has become a highly evolved strategy with a rich and diverse toolkit. It works an amazing amount of the time. The alternative, from a law enforcement standpoint, is to say &quot;we&#039;ve got you surrounded, you&#039;re outgunned, and we&#039;re going to kill you. So do your worst.&quot; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I know I won&#039;t convince some commentors here of anything, but it is my hope that readers with more open minds will start thinking about negotiation as a serious tool for resolving conflict, and not some sissy soft liberal &quot;appeasement&quot; strategy. Remember, real world tough guys with guns, actual law enforcement heroes do this every day: they negotiate with the most sociopathic and dangerous people imaginable. And they win. They&#039;re not &quot;naive&quot; or stupid or inexperienced or exercising bad judgment. I wouldn&#039;t be surprised to see some of them standing up for Obama and throwing this misrepresentation of the art of diplomacy right back in the GOP&#039;s faces. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The approach of threatening, of not engaging, and of attacking is a much riskier strategy, both in law enforcement and in international relations.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I hope the Obama campaign can get across to voting Americans that negotiation is not a gift to our enemies. Negotiation concedes nothing! Is a perfectly valid, legitimate and proven method of resolving conflict.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Now, as several here have taken a very inflexible position about negotiation, what is your solution? Bomb Iran? Is that really what you&#039;re suggesting? Unleashing missiles against a sovereign nation, possibly even nuclear weapons, threatening our own soldiers downwind in Afghanistan with radiation poisoning? Inciting the righteous wrath of the entire Islamic world, of all of our enemies and most of our friends? Or do you have some third option that you haven&#039;t stated. Please. Share it with us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, now that this discussion has veered almost permanently off-topic, let me once again reiterate a real-world perspective missing in this dialogue. </p>
<p>The police negotiate with criminals in very intense crisis situations in which there is a high possibility of injury or death on both sides. No one accuses them of &#8220;appeasement&#8221; or of &#8220;legitimizing&#8221; the criminals. There are no preconditions, as none are possible. There are no &#8220;low level talks&#8221; because there isn&#39;t time (and besides, what sense does it make to give your second string a shot at it first?) </p>
<p>Negotiation has become a highly evolved strategy with a rich and diverse toolkit. It works an amazing amount of the time. The alternative, from a law enforcement standpoint, is to say &#8220;we&#39;ve got you surrounded, you&#39;re outgunned, and we&#39;re going to kill you. So do your worst.&#8221; </p>
<p>I know I won&#39;t convince some commentors here of anything, but it is my hope that readers with more open minds will start thinking about negotiation as a serious tool for resolving conflict, and not some sissy soft liberal &#8220;appeasement&#8221; strategy. Remember, real world tough guys with guns, actual law enforcement heroes do this every day: they negotiate with the most sociopathic and dangerous people imaginable. And they win. They&#39;re not &#8220;naive&#8221; or stupid or inexperienced or exercising bad judgment. I wouldn&#39;t be surprised to see some of them standing up for Obama and throwing this misrepresentation of the art of diplomacy right back in the GOP&#39;s faces. </p>
<p>The approach of threatening, of not engaging, and of attacking is a much riskier strategy, both in law enforcement and in international relations.</p>
<p>I hope the Obama campaign can get across to voting Americans that negotiation is not a gift to our enemies. Negotiation concedes nothing! Is a perfectly valid, legitimate and proven method of resolving conflict.</p>
<p>Now, as several here have taken a very inflexible position about negotiation, what is your solution? Bomb Iran? Is that really what you&#39;re suggesting? Unleashing missiles against a sovereign nation, possibly even nuclear weapons, threatening our own soldiers downwind in Afghanistan with radiation poisoning? Inciting the righteous wrath of the entire Islamic world, of all of our enemies and most of our friends? Or do you have some third option that you haven&#39;t stated. Please. Share it with us.</p>
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		<title>By: Jillmz</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/19861/metrosexuals-versus-manly-men-a-reason-voters-will-prefer-mccain-to-obama/comment-page-3/#comment-127291</link>
		<dc:creator>Jillmz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 20:27:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Runasim: bingo: &quot;The manliest man is seldom the one needing to brag about his manliness.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Why did anyone even have to create this word?  ugh :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Runasim: bingo: &#8220;The manliest man is seldom the one needing to brag about his manliness.&#8221;</p>
<p>Why did anyone even have to create this word?  ugh <img src='http://themoderatevoice.com/wordpress-engine/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jillmz</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/19861/metrosexuals-versus-manly-men-a-reason-voters-will-prefer-mccain-to-obama/comment-page-3/#comment-127296</link>
		<dc:creator>Jillmz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 20:27:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Runasim: bingo: &quot;The manliest man is seldom the one needing to brag about his manliness.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Why did anyone even have to create this word?  ugh :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Runasim: bingo: &#8220;The manliest man is seldom the one needing to brag about his manliness.&#8221;</p>
<p>Why did anyone even have to create this word?  ugh <img src='http://themoderatevoice.com/wordpress-engine/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jillmz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jillmz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 20:27:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Runasim: bingo: &quot;The manliest man is seldom the one needing to brag about his manliness.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Why did anyone even have to create this word?  ugh :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Runasim: bingo: &#8220;The manliest man is seldom the one needing to brag about his manliness.&#8221;</p>
<p>Why did anyone even have to create this word?  ugh <img src='http://themoderatevoice.com/wordpress-engine/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: runasim</title>
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		<dc:creator>runasim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 20:21:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>CStanley-&lt;br&gt;Again, if we don&#039;t want to negotiate about  Hezbollah, WE DON&#039;T HAVE TO.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;That should not  be a precondition to say &#039;hello&#039; on other topics.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Gazing into crystal balls about what Obama would or would not do in situations that haven&#039;t happened yet, is just pseudo-analysis, as no one knows anymore what any ot the phrases or words used actually mean.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m actually sorry that politics has pushed Obam to make as many specific statemtns as he has already.  That just paints him in a corner, whereas an  important attribute of a leader is the ability to be flexible when necessary,  to adapt to new conditions and to think outside the box.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s much more important to know HOW he thinks, not what specific steps he would take in the unknown future.  If you must have a dead certain step by step blueprint for dealing with future siuations,  I don&#039;t think politics is the place to look for that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CStanley-<br />Again, if we don&#39;t want to negotiate about  Hezbollah, WE DON&#39;T HAVE TO.</p>
<p>That should not  be a precondition to say &#39;hello&#39; on other topics.</p>
<p>Gazing into crystal balls about what Obama would or would not do in situations that haven&#39;t happened yet, is just pseudo-analysis, as no one knows anymore what any ot the phrases or words used actually mean.</p>
<p>I&#39;m actually sorry that politics has pushed Obam to make as many specific statemtns as he has already.  That just paints him in a corner, whereas an  important attribute of a leader is the ability to be flexible when necessary,  to adapt to new conditions and to think outside the box.</p>
<p>It&#39;s much more important to know HOW he thinks, not what specific steps he would take in the unknown future.  If you must have a dead certain step by step blueprint for dealing with future siuations,  I don&#39;t think politics is the place to look for that.</p>
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		<title>By: runasim</title>
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		<dc:creator>runasim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 20:21:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>CStanley-&lt;br&gt;Again, if we don&#039;t want to negotiate about  Hezbollah, WE DON&#039;T HAVE TO.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;That should not  be a precondition to say &#039;hello&#039; on other topics.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Gazing into crystal balls about what Obama would or would not do in situations that haven&#039;t happened yet, is just pseudo-analysis, as no one knows anymore what any ot the phrases or words used actually mean.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m actually sorry that politics has pushed Obam to make as many specific statemtns as he has already.  That just paints him in a corner, whereas an  important attribute of a leader is the ability to be flexible when necessary,  to adapt to new conditions and to think outside the box.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s much more important to know HOW he thinks, not what specific steps he would take in the unknown future.  If you must have a dead certain step by step blueprint for dealing with future siuations,  I don&#039;t think politics is the place to look for that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CStanley-<br />Again, if we don&#39;t want to negotiate about  Hezbollah, WE DON&#39;T HAVE TO.</p>
<p>That should not  be a precondition to say &#39;hello&#39; on other topics.</p>
<p>Gazing into crystal balls about what Obama would or would not do in situations that haven&#39;t happened yet, is just pseudo-analysis, as no one knows anymore what any ot the phrases or words used actually mean.</p>
<p>I&#39;m actually sorry that politics has pushed Obam to make as many specific statemtns as he has already.  That just paints him in a corner, whereas an  important attribute of a leader is the ability to be flexible when necessary,  to adapt to new conditions and to think outside the box.</p>
<p>It&#39;s much more important to know HOW he thinks, not what specific steps he would take in the unknown future.  If you must have a dead certain step by step blueprint for dealing with future siuations,  I don&#39;t think politics is the place to look for that.</p>
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		<title>By: runasim</title>
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		<dc:creator>runasim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 20:21:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>CStanley-&lt;br&gt;Again, if we don&#039;t want to negotiate about  Hezbollah, WE DON&#039;T HAVE TO.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;That should not  be a precondition to say &#039;hello&#039; on other topics.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Gazing into crystal balls about what Obama would or would not do in situations that haven&#039;t happened yet, is just pseudo-analysis, as no one knows anymore what any ot the phrases or words used actually mean.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m actually sorry that politics has pushed Obam to make as many specific statemtns as he has already.  That just paints him in a corner, whereas an  important attribute of a leader is the ability to be flexible when necessary,  to adapt to new conditions and to think outside the box.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s much more important to know HOW he thinks, not what specific steps he would take in the unknown future.  If you must have a dead certain step by step blueprint for dealing with future siuations,  I don&#039;t think politics is the place to look for that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CStanley-<br />Again, if we don&#39;t want to negotiate about  Hezbollah, WE DON&#39;T HAVE TO.</p>
<p>That should not  be a precondition to say &#39;hello&#39; on other topics.</p>
<p>Gazing into crystal balls about what Obama would or would not do in situations that haven&#39;t happened yet, is just pseudo-analysis, as no one knows anymore what any ot the phrases or words used actually mean.</p>
<p>I&#39;m actually sorry that politics has pushed Obam to make as many specific statemtns as he has already.  That just paints him in a corner, whereas an  important attribute of a leader is the ability to be flexible when necessary,  to adapt to new conditions and to think outside the box.</p>
<p>It&#39;s much more important to know HOW he thinks, not what specific steps he would take in the unknown future.  If you must have a dead certain step by step blueprint for dealing with future siuations,  I don&#39;t think politics is the place to look for that.</p>
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		<title>By: ChrisWWW</title>
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		<dc:creator>ChrisWWW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 20:12:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>CStanley,&lt;br&gt;The reason we can&#039;t agree is because your perception of diplomacy and negotiations are a bit off. Let me quote M. Yglesias:&lt;br&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;The aim of diplomacy in this kind of situation is genuine bargaining aimed at reaching a mutually advantageous agreement. You&#039;re trying to cooperate and realize positive-sum gains, and diplomacy is the process by which those opportunities are identified and exploited. Obviously, such efforts sometimes fail and then maybe you look at coercion, but the diplomatic effort is not, as such, an attempt at coercion. If you think of it as one, you&#039;ll wind up thinking of it as a really shoddy attempt at coercion, and wind up rejecting it out of hand.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And for kicks... there this:&lt;br&gt;&quot;The argument that the administration makes is that we can&#039;t negotiate with Iran because it will legitimate them. Well, we&#039;re legitimating North Korea, so what&#039;s the big deal?&quot; - Zbigniew Brzezinsk</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CStanley,<br />The reason we can&#39;t agree is because your perception of diplomacy and negotiations are a bit off. Let me quote M. Yglesias:<br />
<blockquote>The aim of diplomacy in this kind of situation is genuine bargaining aimed at reaching a mutually advantageous agreement. You&#39;re trying to cooperate and realize positive-sum gains, and diplomacy is the process by which those opportunities are identified and exploited. Obviously, such efforts sometimes fail and then maybe you look at coercion, but the diplomatic effort is not, as such, an attempt at coercion. If you think of it as one, you&#39;ll wind up thinking of it as a really shoddy attempt at coercion, and wind up rejecting it out of hand.</p></blockquote>
<p>And for kicks&#8230; there this:<br />&#8220;The argument that the administration makes is that we can&#39;t negotiate with Iran because it will legitimate them. Well, we&#39;re legitimating North Korea, so what&#39;s the big deal?&#8221; &#8211; Zbigniew Brzezinsk</p>
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		<title>By: ChrisWWW</title>
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		<dc:creator>ChrisWWW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 20:12:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>CStanley,&lt;br&gt;The reason we can&#039;t agree is because your perception of diplomacy and negotiations are a bit off. Let me quote M. Yglesias:&lt;br&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;The aim of diplomacy in this kind of situation is genuine bargaining aimed at reaching a mutually advantageous agreement. You&#039;re trying to cooperate and realize positive-sum gains, and diplomacy is the process by which those opportunities are identified and exploited. Obviously, such efforts sometimes fail and then maybe you look at coercion, but the diplomatic effort is not, as such, an attempt at coercion. If you think of it as one, you&#039;ll wind up thinking of it as a really shoddy attempt at coercion, and wind up rejecting it out of hand.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And for kicks... there this:&lt;br&gt;&quot;The argument that the administration makes is that we can&#039;t negotiate with Iran because it will legitimate them. Well, we&#039;re legitimating North Korea, so what&#039;s the big deal?&quot; - Zbigniew Brzezinsk</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CStanley,<br />The reason we can&#39;t agree is because your perception of diplomacy and negotiations are a bit off. Let me quote M. Yglesias:<br />
<blockquote>The aim of diplomacy in this kind of situation is genuine bargaining aimed at reaching a mutually advantageous agreement. You&#39;re trying to cooperate and realize positive-sum gains, and diplomacy is the process by which those opportunities are identified and exploited. Obviously, such efforts sometimes fail and then maybe you look at coercion, but the diplomatic effort is not, as such, an attempt at coercion. If you think of it as one, you&#39;ll wind up thinking of it as a really shoddy attempt at coercion, and wind up rejecting it out of hand.</p></blockquote>
<p>And for kicks&#8230; there this:<br />&#8220;The argument that the administration makes is that we can&#39;t negotiate with Iran because it will legitimate them. Well, we&#39;re legitimating North Korea, so what&#39;s the big deal?&#8221; &#8211; Zbigniew Brzezinsk</p>
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		<title>By: ChrisWWW</title>
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		<dc:creator>ChrisWWW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 20:12:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>CStanley,&lt;br&gt;The reason we can&#039;t agree is because your perception of diplomacy and negotiations are a bit off. Let me quote M. Yglesias:&lt;br&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;The aim of diplomacy in this kind of situation is genuine bargaining aimed at reaching a mutually advantageous agreement. You&#039;re trying to cooperate and realize positive-sum gains, and diplomacy is the process by which those opportunities are identified and exploited. Obviously, such efforts sometimes fail and then maybe you look at coercion, but the diplomatic effort is not, as such, an attempt at coercion. If you think of it as one, you&#039;ll wind up thinking of it as a really shoddy attempt at coercion, and wind up rejecting it out of hand.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And for kicks... there this:&lt;br&gt;&quot;The argument that the administration makes is that we can&#039;t negotiate with Iran because it will legitimate them. Well, we&#039;re legitimating North Korea, so what&#039;s the big deal?&quot; - Zbigniew Brzezinsk</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CStanley,<br />The reason we can&#39;t agree is because your perception of diplomacy and negotiations are a bit off. Let me quote M. Yglesias:<br />
<blockquote>The aim of diplomacy in this kind of situation is genuine bargaining aimed at reaching a mutually advantageous agreement. You&#39;re trying to cooperate and realize positive-sum gains, and diplomacy is the process by which those opportunities are identified and exploited. Obviously, such efforts sometimes fail and then maybe you look at coercion, but the diplomatic effort is not, as such, an attempt at coercion. If you think of it as one, you&#39;ll wind up thinking of it as a really shoddy attempt at coercion, and wind up rejecting it out of hand.</p></blockquote>
<p>And for kicks&#8230; there this:<br />&#8220;The argument that the administration makes is that we can&#39;t negotiate with Iran because it will legitimate them. Well, we&#39;re legitimating North Korea, so what&#39;s the big deal?&#8221; &#8211; Zbigniew Brzezinsk</p>
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		<title>By: runasim</title>
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		<dc:creator>runasim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 19:57:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Getting back to the post, I see where opinions about being metrosexual are very much like the arguments about  preconditions and negotions.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s about appearance vs substance.&lt;br&gt;Bling ves the single flawless diamond.  &lt;br&gt;Placing  the appearance of strength above  using actual strength wisely.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The manliest man is seldom the one needing to brag about his manliness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Getting back to the post, I see where opinions about being metrosexual are very much like the arguments about  preconditions and negotions.</p>
<p>It&#39;s about appearance vs substance.<br />Bling ves the single flawless diamond.  <br />Placing  the appearance of strength above  using actual strength wisely.  </p>
<p>The manliest man is seldom the one needing to brag about his manliness.</p>
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		<title>By: runasim</title>
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		<dc:creator>runasim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 19:57:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Getting back to the post, I see where opinions about being metrosexual are very much like the arguments about  preconditions and negotions.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s about appearance vs substance.&lt;br&gt;Bling ves the single flawless diamond.  &lt;br&gt;Placing  the appearance of strength above  using actual strength wisely.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The manliest man is seldom the one needing to brag about his manliness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Getting back to the post, I see where opinions about being metrosexual are very much like the arguments about  preconditions and negotions.</p>
<p>It&#39;s about appearance vs substance.<br />Bling ves the single flawless diamond.  <br />Placing  the appearance of strength above  using actual strength wisely.  </p>
<p>The manliest man is seldom the one needing to brag about his manliness.</p>
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		<title>By: runasim</title>
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		<dc:creator>runasim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 19:57:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Getting back to the post, I see where opinions about being metrosexual are very much like the arguments about  preconditions and negotions.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s about appearance vs substance.&lt;br&gt;Bling ves the single flawless diamond.  &lt;br&gt;Placing  the appearance of strength above  using actual strength wisely.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The manliest man is seldom the one needing to brag about his manliness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Getting back to the post, I see where opinions about being metrosexual are very much like the arguments about  preconditions and negotions.</p>
<p>It&#39;s about appearance vs substance.<br />Bling ves the single flawless diamond.  <br />Placing  the appearance of strength above  using actual strength wisely.  </p>
<p>The manliest man is seldom the one needing to brag about his manliness.</p>
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		<title>By: CStanley</title>
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		<dc:creator>CStanley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 19:50:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;The one precondition that is never there is a necessity to concede anyhing, discuss anything, or agree to anything. we don&#039;t want to.&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s a question of being open for opportunitie&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;But that&#039;s whats done in the lower channels, which have been open all along. What I&#039;m pointing out is that that&#039;s exactly what Obama is now saying he&#039;ll do too- because if the &#039;preparation&#039; doesn&#039;t bear fruit, then the high level talk doesn&#039;t make any sense (again, it would be disingenuous to sit down for negotiations about say, support of Hezbollah if our position is that there is no support of Hezbollah that is acceptable to us- and the other party would rightfully say that you were coming to the negotiating table in bad faith if you didn&#039;t announce ahead of time your intent to take that position. Ditto for nukes, assuming we hold to the position that a suspension of uranium enrichment is nonnegotiable.)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Preconditions are really just the honest announcement of intentions. If there was a condition that the other side considered nonnegotiable, we would also want them to admit that upfront rather than wasting our time- and if they came to the table saying that they wanted to negotiate on a particular topic but then showed up at the talks and refused to consider any movement from their current position, we&#039;d rightly walk away with the PR victory there because we&#039;d announce &quot;well, we tried, but they aren&#039;t willing to negotiate in good faith.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>The one precondition that is never there is a necessity to concede anyhing, discuss anything, or agree to anything. we don&#39;t want to.<br />It&#39;s a question of being open for opportunitie</i><br />But that&#39;s whats done in the lower channels, which have been open all along. What I&#39;m pointing out is that that&#39;s exactly what Obama is now saying he&#39;ll do too- because if the &#39;preparation&#39; doesn&#39;t bear fruit, then the high level talk doesn&#39;t make any sense (again, it would be disingenuous to sit down for negotiations about say, support of Hezbollah if our position is that there is no support of Hezbollah that is acceptable to us- and the other party would rightfully say that you were coming to the negotiating table in bad faith if you didn&#39;t announce ahead of time your intent to take that position. Ditto for nukes, assuming we hold to the position that a suspension of uranium enrichment is nonnegotiable.)</p>
<p>Preconditions are really just the honest announcement of intentions. If there was a condition that the other side considered nonnegotiable, we would also want them to admit that upfront rather than wasting our time- and if they came to the table saying that they wanted to negotiate on a particular topic but then showed up at the talks and refused to consider any movement from their current position, we&#39;d rightly walk away with the PR victory there because we&#39;d announce &#8220;well, we tried, but they aren&#39;t willing to negotiate in good faith.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: CStanley</title>
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		<dc:creator>CStanley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 19:50:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;The one precondition that is never there is a necessity to concede anyhing, discuss anything, or agree to anything. we don&#039;t want to.&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s a question of being open for opportunitie&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;But that&#039;s whats done in the lower channels, which have been open all along. What I&#039;m pointing out is that that&#039;s exactly what Obama is now saying he&#039;ll do too- because if the &#039;preparation&#039; doesn&#039;t bear fruit, then the high level talk doesn&#039;t make any sense (again, it would be disingenuous to sit down for negotiations about say, support of Hezbollah if our position is that there is no support of Hezbollah that is acceptable to us- and the other party would rightfully say that you were coming to the negotiating table in bad faith if you didn&#039;t announce ahead of time your intent to take that position. Ditto for nukes, assuming we hold to the position that a suspension of uranium enrichment is nonnegotiable.)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Preconditions are really just the honest announcement of intentions. If there was a condition that the other side considered nonnegotiable, we would also want them to admit that upfront rather than wasting our time- and if they came to the table saying that they wanted to negotiate on a particular topic but then showed up at the talks and refused to consider any movement from their current position, we&#039;d rightly walk away with the PR victory there because we&#039;d announce &quot;well, we tried, but they aren&#039;t willing to negotiate in good faith.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>The one precondition that is never there is a necessity to concede anyhing, discuss anything, or agree to anything. we don&#39;t want to.<br />It&#39;s a question of being open for opportunitie</i><br />But that&#39;s whats done in the lower channels, which have been open all along. What I&#39;m pointing out is that that&#39;s exactly what Obama is now saying he&#39;ll do too- because if the &#39;preparation&#39; doesn&#39;t bear fruit, then the high level talk doesn&#39;t make any sense (again, it would be disingenuous to sit down for negotiations about say, support of Hezbollah if our position is that there is no support of Hezbollah that is acceptable to us- and the other party would rightfully say that you were coming to the negotiating table in bad faith if you didn&#39;t announce ahead of time your intent to take that position. Ditto for nukes, assuming we hold to the position that a suspension of uranium enrichment is nonnegotiable.)</p>
<p>Preconditions are really just the honest announcement of intentions. If there was a condition that the other side considered nonnegotiable, we would also want them to admit that upfront rather than wasting our time- and if they came to the table saying that they wanted to negotiate on a particular topic but then showed up at the talks and refused to consider any movement from their current position, we&#39;d rightly walk away with the PR victory there because we&#39;d announce &#8220;well, we tried, but they aren&#39;t willing to negotiate in good faith.&#8221;</p>
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