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		<title>By: Ed Allen</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/10124/center-of-attention-6/comment-page-1/#comment-41833</link>
		<dc:creator>Ed Allen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jan 2007 03:15:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve relied upon my cell phone as my sole source of telephony for the past five years, and suggest to others to try the same. Given that, I still follow the simpler rules of conversational etiquette which most tend to forget:

- If it is of a private nature, and you cannot whisper, you need to wait for another opportunity to talk of it;
- If you already are in a conversation with someone in front of you, interrupting said conversation should be for good reason;
- There are times for speaking, and times for silence. It&#039;s beneficial in life to know which has priority.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve relied upon my cell phone as my sole source of telephony for the past five years, and suggest to others to try the same. Given that, I still follow the simpler rules of conversational etiquette which most tend to forget:</p>
<p>- If it is of a private nature, and you cannot whisper, you need to wait for another opportunity to talk of it;<br />
- If you already are in a conversation with someone in front of you, interrupting said conversation should be for good reason;<br />
- There are times for speaking, and times for silence. It&#8217;s beneficial in life to know which has priority.</p>
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		<title>By: superdestroyer</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/10124/center-of-attention-6/comment-page-1/#comment-41831</link>
		<dc:creator>superdestroyer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jan 2007 02:46:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For rudeness, trying going to a school event like a concert or a play.  The cell phones combined with digital video recorders, digital cameras, and everything else lead to such a level of &quot;electronic rudeness&quot; that is hard to enjoys your childrens performance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For rudeness, trying going to a school event like a concert or a play.  The cell phones combined with digital video recorders, digital cameras, and everything else lead to such a level of &#8220;electronic rudeness&#8221; that is hard to enjoys your childrens performance.</p>
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		<title>By: pacatrue</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/10124/center-of-attention-6/comment-page-1/#comment-41782</link>
		<dc:creator>pacatrue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jan 2007 21:53:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My only phone now is a cell - no land-line at all - but I like to keep it on silent almost always. I didn&#039;t get one for years exactly because I didn&#039;t always want to be reachable. Later I found one useful for a job where I was in the car a lot, and I keep it around now because I want to be reachable for my daycare provider. But if it&#039;s not my wife or daycare calling, I hit &quot;decline&quot; when it buzzes in my pocket and then call back later when I&#039;m in the mood.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My only phone now is a cell &#8211; no land-line at all &#8211; but I like to keep it on silent almost always. I didn&#8217;t get one for years exactly because I didn&#8217;t always want to be reachable. Later I found one useful for a job where I was in the car a lot, and I keep it around now because I want to be reachable for my daycare provider. But if it&#8217;s not my wife or daycare calling, I hit &#8220;decline&#8221; when it buzzes in my pocket and then call back later when I&#8217;m in the mood.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael van der Galien</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/10124/center-of-attention-6/comment-page-1/#comment-41768</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael van der Galien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jan 2007 20:56:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>BYG: you said so much better than I did, and I completely agree!
&lt;blockquote&gt;I completely agree with you about cell phones. They encourage the rude, the self-absorbed, the indecisive, and the procrastinator to be more ill-mannered, less attentive, completely infantile and utterly irresponsible.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Exactly!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BYG: you said so much better than I did, and I completely agree!</p>
<blockquote><p>I completely agree with you about cell phones. They encourage the rude, the self-absorbed, the indecisive, and the procrastinator to be more ill-mannered, less attentive, completely infantile and utterly irresponsible.</p></blockquote>
<p>Exactly!</p>
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		<title>By: BeYourGuest</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/10124/center-of-attention-6/comment-page-1/#comment-41762</link>
		<dc:creator>BeYourGuest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jan 2007 20:24:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>MvdG--

I completely agree with you about cell phones. They encourage the rude, the self-absorbed, the indecisive, and the procrastinator to be more ill-mannered, less attentive, completely infantile and utterly irresponsible.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MvdG&#8211;</p>
<p>I completely agree with you about cell phones. They encourage the rude, the self-absorbed, the indecisive, and the procrastinator to be more ill-mannered, less attentive, completely infantile and utterly irresponsible.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael van der Galien</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/10124/center-of-attention-6/comment-page-1/#comment-41753</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael van der Galien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jan 2007 19:57:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I am afraid to admit that I have given in to pressure several times now. I own one now as well, be it for a time without a card in it (so it didn&#039;t work which made me very happy). However people nagged, so I now have a new card in it.

They now complain that I never switch my cell phone &lt;em&gt;on&lt;/em&gt;.

I tell them that, when I need to use it, I turn it on.

Anyway, yes exactly Lynx. It&#039;s extremely annoying.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I am afraid to admit that I have given in to pressure several times now. I own one now as well, be it for a time without a card in it (so it didn&#8217;t work which made me very happy). However people nagged, so I now have a new card in it.</p>
<p>They now complain that I never switch my cell phone <em>on</em>.</p>
<p>I tell them that, when I need to use it, I turn it on.</p>
<p>Anyway, yes exactly Lynx. It&#8217;s extremely annoying.</p>
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		<title>By: Lynx</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lynx</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jan 2007 19:46:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, those that don&#039;t have cellphones are usually very rant-prone, probably because they feel they have to DEFEND the act of not owning a cellphone ;-). 

I am the happy owner of a cellphone and I find them VERY useful. In my work, where I do need to be reachable but am not always in my lab. In social situations there are many circumstances where a cellphone is useful, not the least of which is &quot;damn, the bus is in traffic, go ahead without me I&#039;ll meet you there&quot; or &quot;I&#039;m lost! I&#039;m in front of a big Cocacola sign and the signpost says High street, where are you?&quot;.

Yes people lived before cellphones, and before internet and landline phones and cars and any number of things. Cellphones are not THE revolutionary invention of the century, but they ARE useful.

I will give you this though Michael, nothing more annoying than being stuck in public transportation (or a bar) with someone sharing his life on the phone for all to hear. Madrid wants to make cellphones reachable in our Metro, most people are opposed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, those that don&#8217;t have cellphones are usually very rant-prone, probably because they feel they have to DEFEND the act of not owning a cellphone <img src='http://themoderatevoice.com/wordpress-engine/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> . </p>
<p>I am the happy owner of a cellphone and I find them VERY useful. In my work, where I do need to be reachable but am not always in my lab. In social situations there are many circumstances where a cellphone is useful, not the least of which is &#8220;damn, the bus is in traffic, go ahead without me I&#8217;ll meet you there&#8221; or &#8220;I&#8217;m lost! I&#8217;m in front of a big Cocacola sign and the signpost says High street, where are you?&#8221;.</p>
<p>Yes people lived before cellphones, and before internet and landline phones and cars and any number of things. Cellphones are not THE revolutionary invention of the century, but they ARE useful.</p>
<p>I will give you this though Michael, nothing more annoying than being stuck in public transportation (or a bar) with someone sharing his life on the phone for all to hear. Madrid wants to make cellphones reachable in our Metro, most people are opposed.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael van der Galien</title>
		<link>http://themoderatevoice.com/10124/center-of-attention-6/comment-page-1/#comment-41747</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael van der Galien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jan 2007 19:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>lol, sorry for the rant, I could not control myself ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>lol, sorry for the rant, I could not control myself <img src='http://themoderatevoice.com/wordpress-engine/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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